Feeling Hopeless

 Letter: "I don't have the foggiest idea why I'm composing this – it's so not normal for me to really feel 'sad.' I am a single parent raising two teenaged young men. After my most youthful was attacked en route to class last year, I quit a respectable work in TV to begin my own promoting/p.r. business out of my home. I had two customers that, at that point, empowered me to make more than I had worked for the channel. And afterward, in March, one of the customers and I headed out in different directions. We had altogether different assumptions. At last, we each had differentiating sees over what my job would be. That cut my pay down the middle. I have drawn in one new customer – however at 33% of what my previous customer paid. Also, presently, I'm owing debtors (profoundly). What's more, presently, I'm underwater (profoundly), my record is overdrawn in light of the fact that my other critical customer "got behind" and didn't place in my programmed installment into my record until yesterday – and it requires 24-72 hours for it to appear (they had revealed to me it would have been placed in last Thursday)! My ex's kid support is late and I don't have sufficient cash to pay for food until the cash appears. I'm frightened that checks will ricochet and I'll be left with nothing. 

I can't rest. My stomach is in tangles. I nearly felt as though my children would be in an ideal situation with their father. He's off and could stand to give them all that I can't. I don't have a clue how to escape this neediness mindset. I don't have a clue why I have such sensations of need with regard to my funds. Tomorrow I have a gathering with an expected customer and I can't zero in on assembling a show for him. Maybe I definitely realize that he will not have any desire to work with me, not to mention PAY me. I get so up for things, I have such incredible assumptions, and afterward, everything crashes and burns. In ALL different parts of my life, I'm progressing admirably. My children are astounding – acceptable hearts, straight-An understudies, great competitors. I don't have weight issues. I don't have issues with my associations with the other gender. It's simply that MONEY is by all accounts getting beyond my control. Truly, I do accept that cash purchases a considerable measure of joy. Basically for me, realizing what I've gone through these previous years, would get some significant serenity. Furthermore, that is the thing that I need. Opportunity and genuine feelings of serenity. To go where I need. To do what I need. To FEEL how I need to feel. 

Would you be able to assist me with getting this negative twisting?" 

A Reader 

Rebecca's answer: 

"Dear Reader, 

Much appreciated such a huge amount for composing. Also, I trust you are feeling much improved. That's right. I've been there a couple of times. I can recollect days when there was nothing left but to stroll around the house saying, 'I simply need to feel great again and again. Ultimately, I improved. Presently, feeling great is my prevailing inclination. In reality, you are a magnificent 'attractor'– take a gander at what you are educating yourself concerning cash and afterward notice how you are drawing in business as usual. In the event that I was training you, I would request you to take a piece of paper and draw a major letter T on it. Then, at that point mark the left section "I don't need" and the right-hand segment, '"I do need". 

First, make a rundown of all that you don't need. Simply utilize the letter you shipped off me and record stuff like: 

I don't need customers paying me late. 

I don't need modest customers who can't stand to pay what I'm worth. 

I don't need youngster support installments to be late. 

Get every one of the negatives OUT of yourself and onto paper. 

Then, at that point go through everything, and ask yourself, "On the off chance that I don't need this, what do I need?" and record what you DO need in the right-hand section. At the point when you've composed a 'Do Want' for everything on the left, FOLD THE PAPER down the center so you are taking a gander at the 'Do Want' list. Keep that rundown before you consistently. Begin to envision what it would want to have customers who JOYFULLY pay for your administrations. How brilliant it is the point at which the Child Support checks show up a day ahead of schedule! Work at maintaining your FOCUS on what you DO WANT. On the off chance that you begin to think or discuss something on the 'Don't Want' side, simply say, "I've managed that, AND what I DO need is… " The T-device is the BEST Law of Attraction Tool for getting clearness! What's more, when you have lucidity, what you need IS headed to you.